Balance online, in-person interactions

The following editorial was originally published in the Honolulu Star-Advertiser on Sunday, August 3rd as part of the “Raise Your Hand” column in the Insight section.

By: Julianne Ulibas, Angelika Mae Garcia, and Erin Kummusaka, Waipahu High School Co 2025


How many times have you picked up your phone today? If you’re like most people, the answer is

roughly 96 times, or once every 10 minutes. For teenagers, the numbers are even more alarming.

Teens spend over seven hours on their phone per day on average, according to Common Sense

Media.

Excessive screen use doesn’t just waste time; it affects our mental health, contributing to anxiety,

stress and feelings of isolation. Yet, in today’s world, smartphones are essential tools for

learning, connecting and staying informed. The solution isn’t to give up phones entirely. Rather,

we must recognize that the problem arises when the balance shifts and our devices go from tools

to traps.

Consider this: 1.63 million middle and high school students currently use e-cigarettes — a

statistic that has sparked public health campaigns and legislative action nationwide. Yet, digital

addiction impacts far more teens, with millions spending hours each day on devices that harm

their mental health. And unlike e-cigarette use, digital addiction isn’t treated as an urgent public

health crisis, even though its long-term effects may be just as damaging.

Cognitive functions shape how the brain processes information, solves math problems, regulates

emotions or handles challenges. “The growing human brain is constantly building neural

connections while pruning away less-used ones, and digital media use plays an active role in that

process,” according to Harvard Medical School. Engaging in offline activities strengthens

pathways for vital motor skills, problem-solving abilities and creativity. Excessive screen time,

however, encourages passive consumption, potentially weakening neural networks critical for

emotional balance and cognitive growth.

Social media offers connection but can amplify anxiety and depression, especially among teens,

where filters and cyberbullying amplify insecurities. Psychology Today reports that “80 percent

of girls have downloaded a filter or used an app to change how they look in photos by age 13.”

Comparison culture extends beyond appearance to academics, social status and success, creating

unrealistic expectations and feelings of inadequacy.

Technology provides an escape through instant dopamine release, which increases the risk of

digital addiction. The American Journal of Psychiatry states that tech addiction mirrors substance

use disorders, with obsessive thoughts, withdrawal symptoms and escalating use. Overreliance

on technology as a coping mechanism can interfere with responsibilities and make it difficult to

function without constant digital stimulation.

Parental awareness is crucial when monitoring children’s use of digital devices, but it should

depend on the child’s maturity level. Some kids handle screen time responsibly, while others

need more supervision. Parents should observe their child’s interaction with technology and set

rules accordingly. Too much control can make kids feel restricted, but too little can lead to bad

habits or unsafe situations online. Finding the right balance helps children learn how to use

electronics wisely while still having guidance from their parents.

Some argue that technology is essential for communication and research, but we often use it far

beyond that — scrolling through social media, playing games and watching videos for hours.

The real issue is the lack of boundaries. Instead of using technology as a tool, we let it consume

our time, distracting us from responsibilities, relationships and well-being.

As seniors at Waipahu High School, we see it daily: students together but glued to their phones,

conversations interrupted by notifications, and people choosing to scroll rather than engage. And

these habits are certainly not limited to youth.

By balancing digital and real-world interactions, we can foster stronger connections, improve

mental health and regain control of our time. The question isn’t whether we need technology —

it’s whether we control it or let it control us.

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